What Would You Want Said at Your Funeral?

Many bloggers, perhaps unsurprisingly, post King excerpts on MLK day. I will also excerpt a piece of King's speaking. It is pulled out the dog-eared anthology of his work i picked up several years ago in the deep south when i was a part of Operation Understanding. King gave a speech on February 4, 1968. It was part of his movement towards thanatopsis. The first time a heard the booming driving conclusion, i was in the King museum, i cried, one exhibit over, i slumped down sitting in front of a blown up bus from the freedom rides. The second time i heard this speech, The Drum Major Instinct, i was again in a museum and again i cried. Not sure exactly why, but man it sure inspired me in high school when i was actively trying to put together a world view.

Every now and then I guess we all think realistically (Yes, sir) about that day when we will be victimized with what is life's final common denominator—that something that we call death. We all think about it. And every now and then I think about my own death and I think about my own funeral. And I don't think of it in a morbid sense. And every now and then I ask myself, "What is it that I would want said?" And I leave the word to you this morning.

If any of you are around when I have to meet my day, I don’t want a long funeral. And if you get somebody to deliver the eulogy, tell them not to talk too long. (Yes) And every now and then I wonder what I want them to say. Tell them not to mention that I have a Nobel Peace Prize—that isn’t important. Tell them not to mention that I have three or four hundred other awards—that’s not important. Tell them not to mention where I went to school. (Yes)

I'd like somebody to mention that day that Martin Luther King, Jr., tried to give his life serving others. (Yes)

I'd like for somebody to say that day that Martin Luther King, Jr., tried to love somebody.

I want you to say that day that I tried to be right on the war question. (Amen)

I want you to be able to say that day that I did try to feed the hungry. (Yes)

And I want you to be able to say that day that I did try in my life to clothe those who were naked. (Yes)

I want you to say on that day that I did try in my life to visit those who were in prison. (Lord)

I want you to say that I tried to love and serve humanity. (Yes)

Yes, if you want to say that I was a drum major, say that I was a drum major for justice. (Amen) Say that I was a drum major for peace. (Yes) I was a drum major for righteousness. And all of the other shallow things will not matter. (Yes) I won't have any money to leave behind. I won't have the fine and luxurious things of life to leave behind. But I just want to leave a committed life behind. (Amen) And that's all I want to say. [full text]

I tried to find audio of this section. i am sure it is out there somewhere. let me know if you have a link to it.